Day 207 - January 7 - A Bitter taste
Three days. I think that's the longest I've ever gone without posting something to the blog. I'm sorry about that - it's a tough week.
This week is the last we have with Joélle before she goes back to Chicago this Saturday. In many ways, this is the last time our daughter will live with us - Spring Break, then three weeks in May, and she's married. And while I am rejoicing with her in this time of her happiness, part of me will be watching my little nine-year-old girl walk down that aisle. So sending her back to college this weekend is a pretty big hurdle for her old man here.
It's also going to be a big impact on the boy. Joélle and Connor have been best friends since childhood, and she's been nearby ever since June. So this separation is looming large, and we don't really know what kind of burden this will put on Connor. If I have any prayer request tonight, it's that you would be lifting Connor up as his sister leaves; that God would raise up someone who will help fill that particular void after she goes; that Connor would find comfort and solace in God's Word; and that Connor's friends would step up to help fill the gap left by Joélle's departure.
You know, we're each impacted in some way, and being tired makes it all seem harder to deal with. So I guess I'm trying to say that we really, really, really appreciate each of you - your prayer, your encouragement, your words of scripture, your support. We thank God for you each day.
Eric
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posted by Eric Williamson @ 10:00 PM
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I'll lift you up! I always do!
P.S. I'm a Cowboys fan too! Go boys!
Michawn
Eric,
I check ConnorWatch almost daily...and even though I don't post often at all....be assured your family is in my prayers. This is a huge void to be filled...and I will be praying.
God bless you..
Kathy
I would like to ask all of you to also remember Joelle in your prayers... she is feeling guilty for leaving her brother. She has been such a wonderful helper, friend, companion, comedian, counselor, teacher, and all around wonderful daughter! I am going to miss her companionship here... and especially her beautiful smile, and calming voice in the mornings; on those days when I have a hard time starting a new day. I am truly blessed to call her my daughter!
Again, thank you for remembering her too... I have always considered Joelle and Connor to be twins..Where one is the other is sure to be found!
God bless everyone of you,
Cherie' Williamson
Just in case you didn't catch it, that last post from "me" was really my wonderful and thoughtful wife, Cherie. Apparently I also forgot to sign off when I was finished!
I didn't intend to mean that Joelle isn't affected too - so I really appreciate my helpmate filling in the gaps I leave behind! So thanks, babe! You're right on the money, like usual! I love you!
We are praying, for all of you!
Williamson Family,
Yes, some of us have not been posting as much as in the past, BUT we all are still thinking, praying, and cheering on each new and good day you have. We will be praying for you all as you have your teary goodbyes on Saturday. Know you have done a wonderful job raising your daughter and she will always be a blessing to you and your family. Your family is not shrinking, but growing with yet another family member by marriage.
ALWAYS baby steps!
MH. Myers Family
Eric
Just visited your blog this morning after we dropped our daughter and son in law at the airport. They are returning to Canada where they live. We know what you are feeling as I walked this daughter down the aisle a year and 1/2 ago. We will pray for you and your family.
Phil & Karen Medlin, Sacramento
Yes, we too will be praying for all of you. We know exactly how you are feeling in loosing your one and only daughter to marriage. Our one and only daughter married 5 1/2 years ago, and even though we do gain a son-in-law, which is great, it's not the same, as having your daughter living with you.
We too were all very excited for her, but it was tough on our whole family. Her two younger brothers, especially, (11 & 13 years apart from her) missed her, as she was really like a "2nd" mom to them, in some ways, a "1st" mom.
So you can count on us to be praying for all of you. For Connor and every one of you to be comforted. And that Joelle won't feel guilty, as this is in God's plan.
We're praying!
In Christ!
Kim
Hi Guys! Your love for one another has always been something so amazing to me- and to see it as the strong thread that holds you all together, through all your trials and day-to-day 'stuff' is nothing short of a miracle in itself. At least to me! You guys all bless me in many ways, as I sit on the outskirts looking in. We pray daily and nightly- especially for peace and rest during the night. And we won't stop. We know your heart aches for your daughter too, and for your son missing his sister, as well as missing her yourselves. We can't take away your hurt- but I hope it helps to know that we understand- and we will pray God eases your sorrow, too.
We love you all!
Sincerely in Christ~
The Barr's of Morgan Hill
I respectfully submit to you that a daily blog may not be necessary. We are all praying and thinking of you daily. I have pics posted on the fridge and different blogs....so, don't ever apologize. You blog when you need to. (Any chance of getting Connor to blog for us?...I know I would love to hear his thoughts)
When our daughter moved out of the house 7 years ago she was 18. We packed up her room, loaded the stuff and moved her into the guest house in our backyard.....whew!
But really, it was more emotional for me having her 200ft away than when she moved out for college two years later.
It was just the fact of her absence in the house. Her bedroom was empty, her life spirit in the morning was not there. Her music, her laughs etc...She was beginning to detach and grow on her own.
Just believe me, that your relationship will transcend to such a deeper level and you will be amazed at the peace God will give you.
Williamsons,
Know I am praying! I don't know what words to say but know each of you have been more strongly in my thoghts. God is great and HE will be with you.
Hi Williamson's...
I too check the blog through my email daily...and haven't posted as much as i want too...We pray for you all the time..Think about you all the time and always are believeing with you...We will also be praying for that beautiful girl of yours and like everyone else feels about you 4...we think your an exceptional family and we know that God has super duper big big love for you because He has trusted you with a HUGE ASSIGNMENT!!!!!!!! You are very special chosen people to represent Him well and that you do!!!! We send you big big love and please give that daughter of yours our love...
With love,
Kathy MacPhail
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