Saturday, June 21, 2008

Day 6 - June 21 - Last update before bed

We've gotten a bit more clarification about what's going on, and I wanted to pass it on to everyone before I headed off to bed - err, "floor". We're trying to make it an early night and get some desperately needed rest.

The spinal manipulation is slowly moving things in the right direction. Emphasis on the word "slowly". I think the bloodletters are a bit amazed that this process hasn't only taken an hour. Connor is heavily sedated still, so after I prayed and sang with him I took the opportunity to speak at length with the nurse. While she's not the doctor, she was able to give me some general information which sheds some light.

First, the pacemaker only fires off when Connor's heartrate drops below 45. This has happened occasionally, but not often. I was under the impression that it was continuous, so the fact that it is only when necessary comforts me. The nurse tells me that the reason for the erratic heart and lung function is most likely due to swelling at the injury sight, and should clear up as that goes down. Good news.

Second, the motivation for aligning the spine is not to align the spinal cord, as I had supposed. Instead, it is to align the vascular system in that area. They know there is vascular damage - the pinched vertebral artery, the blood clot - plus the potential for the veins and arteries to have stretched during the injury, with a possible weakening of the vessel walls. This means that they need to evaluate the damage and repair it as necessary - to them, the spinal stuff is of secondary importance.

Cherié, Joélle and I, as well as the many people here with us, have been given great opportunity to minister to the families of many of the other ICU patients. It is exciting to see how people become much more open to hearing the grace of God when they come face to face with such devastation in their lives. Pray for us to be effective ministers of His grace to these families who must share this journey.

God bless you for your prayers.

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14 Comments:

At June 22, 2008 12:25 AM , Blogger scottspot said...

Hi Eric, Cherie' & Joelle. Been watching the daily updates. Praying. Agonizing with you. Not knowing what to say. But we're here with you, unable to imagine your pain. I am amazed by your faith, honesty, clarity of mind, and ability to communicate the details. Thank your taking the time to share your heart as it allows us to share in not only the grief, but the *hope*, not just in health, but in our Savior. Thanks for sharing your heart. Thanks for your ministry to those around you who are also hurting ... only by His grace. We love & miss you guys. Scott for the Sherratt family.

 
At June 22, 2008 2:01 AM , Anonymous Jenann said...

Lee and I got home about 1/2 an hour ago. I popped in to read through today's blog entries just to cement in my head the specific things I'll be praying for before I fall to sleep.

- stable/safe heart rate
- stable/safe blood pressure
- protection of all Connor's organs
- no major damage to the vertebral artery
- clearing of the blood clot in a safe way so as not to threaten Connor's life
- no stretching and/or weakening to the vessel walls
- safe/successful realignment of the C4 and C5 vertebrae, with the weights as being currently used
- wisdom for the doctors and God's guiding hand on the "tools" as they contemplate the best approach to realigning his vertebrae
- patience for the doctors so they won't push any treatment to quickly
- God's perfect timing
- rest and healing for Connor's whole system
- a complete night's rest for Eric, Cherie and Joelle
- refreshment and encouragement as God greets them with a new day...and new mercies

God is good. He is faithful.

Jenann

 
At June 22, 2008 2:06 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Cherie, and family...I am praying for you. I wish I could take the pain away for you and Connor. I have never met him, but Cherie is an amazing person...and I know he must be very cool.
I lost my oldest sister in a car accident. Everything happens for a reason...it may not be clear now, but you will find strengh in each other. I am praying for you.
-Teresa

 
At June 22, 2008 3:36 AM , Blogger BBob said...

I am not much on writing about these type of heartaches, but knowing the family as I do and knowing there hearts with God, their strength will hold them tight with the love for one another.

Linda and I have contacted many prayer teams and the members of Connor's Grandparents old high school car club. They all send their prayers, and heart felt thoughts to Connor and his family.

 
At June 22, 2008 5:39 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello Eric, Cherie, and Joelle,
This is the Frye family again in Romania. Just wanted to let you know that today, Robert, my husband, brought Connor and your family before our church for prayer. Our entire Romanian church, Stanka, is praying for you all, and so is our little village of 200 Orthodox people here in Ighisu Vechi, Romania. Your courage, strength and faith have touched many people that you will probably never meet. A day hasn't gone by since we heard of the accident that we haven't cried and shared in your prayers. We continue to pray everyday and Lord willing, maybe in a few days while on your journey, the Lord will lift you up on His shoulders and allow you to see part of the road above the dashboard.
Jody for the Fryes in Romania

 
At June 22, 2008 8:40 AM , Blogger kim singletary said...

On earlier blogs you posted that you wanted to see who was praying for you and from how far away. I wanted Connor to know that Mike Singletary from the Chicago Bears, and now coaching at the 49ers, is one of those that is standing in the gap for him and your family. I am Kim, his wife, and we are friends with Randy and Teresa Alvey, from your church. Know that we are believing God for a complete and total healing and restoration. Phil. 4:6,7 has been my verse of meditation for the last few months. In particular, our prayer is that verse 7 of that passage...that 'peace that surpasses all understanding' will be yours through this trying time.

 
At June 22, 2008 8:41 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Greetings from Chicago, from extended family (Kent's wife's sister). Just wanted to say that all four of you are an inspiration and example for so many things in so many ways. What a beautiful family! And although this may be a bump in the road, it is His road and somewhere along the way it will be clear His intentions. Your strength and faith are a ministry to more than you know. Olivia and Zachary ask daily for updates. We will continue to monitor the blog and get updates from Karen and Kent. I feel for Eric and Cherie as I can't imagine the angst for your child, and Joelle, for your sibling! Bless all of you and may you have peace! Kristen

 
At June 22, 2008 8:48 AM , Blogger Mrs. Guilloux said...

Hello Williamson family. I want you to know you are in our prayers and thoughts continuously during this difficult time. It is such a wonderful testimony to see the praise given to God and the wonderful way you want to minister to others in your situation. I pray God's comfort and peace on you, Eric, Cherie and Joelle, and I pray for God's healing for your dear Connor. God bless you and keep you.
Jean, Xavier and Kalyn (Mace) Guilloux
Virginia

 
At June 22, 2008 11:13 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Eric, Cherie, Joelle, & Connor;

Although I am at the hospital with you, I don't want take up the precious time that you spend with Connor, with your friends and family, and with the other hurting families. So I am going to post what I want to say here, and you can read it when you have time.

I want you to know what a blessing you have been to my family over the years. We love you guys and your friendship has been so special to us. And you have raised such wonderful, caring, non-judgemental, loving kids!

I come home each night and share with my son, DJ, the day's progress and how you have been able to minister to the other families at the hospital.

DJ asked me to share with you that this week he has had a breakthrough in the depression he has been suffering over the past several months. He has been so moved by the way that God has been with Connor (and all of you) through this, and by how Connor can trust and praise God through this and say that no matter what happens he still wants to serve God. DJ said that he has always known that God is with him, but didn't really believe it. And this is the first time he has really understood that God is ALL he needs, and he can now feel God with him. He says that God told him not to worry about Connor because Connor will be okay and is going to have a great ministry because of this. He asked if I thought it was okay if, when he is a wealthy record company owner, he gave his tithe to Connor's ministry instead of to the church. :-)

Thanks so much for allowing God to use you to touch the heart of my son, myself, and so many others!

Laura Slagle

 
At June 22, 2008 4:37 PM , Anonymous Dave T said...

Hey Guys,

Sorry I haven't posted earlier.
Just wanted you to know I love you.

Connor, keep fighting....

Praying from Aromas,

 
At June 22, 2008 6:10 PM , Anonymous danny and laura slavich said...

The younger Slavich family is praying for you all daily, as is Laura's family in Florida. We are praying specifically that the Lord will heal Connor miraculously and bring glory to his name and good to your family.

We also wanted to pass on the comments that some folks left on my blog:

"Dear Williamson Family: Nancy Davidhizar has just informed us of Conner’s accident! We will be praying for you daily & are comforted to know that your trust is in the LORD. May HIS presence continue to be your experience in the difficult days ahead. We will be checking “Connor Watch” regularly for updates.
Love & Prayers, Ray & Carolyn"

and

"okay, this may seem weird, i think its God…i am learning about blogging, stats etc., was checking out who may be checking out my simple blog, while googling names and links, this blog came up! It immediately caught my attention it that my oldest son’s name is Connor and we are related to some Williamsons in Virginia by marriage…
Anyway, My husband and i are followers of Christ, tragedy has come our family’s way a few times in our 15 years of marriage and almost 33 years of existence on earth, so we know what it means to have others praying and interceding for us…
Though we don’t know you or CW, we will be lifting you all up to our Faithful Dad—God. from the temperature of his room to be comfortable to the ultimate healing however God chooses to heal him whether here or There, we are asking Him for healing and peace that gos beyond anyone’s understanding(seems like he already feels that awesome Peace if he is singing to God and praying for a roommate)
Prayerfully,
kristina, chris and the alford crew(Connor and Cayden)"

Grace and Peace,
Danny and Laura

 
At June 22, 2008 8:22 PM , Anonymous Angela said...

Dear Williamson Family,

I just wanted to let you know I noticed the link to this blog on Joelle's facebook today and just sat down and read the blog entries from start to finish. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your faith is an inspiration to all of us and I trust that our awesome God will continue to sustain you. May you feel His loving arms surround you today.
-Angela from Oregon (friend of Joelle's from Moody)

 
At June 22, 2008 11:17 PM , Anonymous Lee said...

Eric, my brother - what a privilege it was to stand by you in Connor's room and hear your tender and loving words to your son - your encouragement, your father's pride, your prayer, your song... And above all, your confidence in God that He would see Connor through this valley. What a blessing, what a privilege to witness such tangible evidence of God's perfect provision for Connor in you as his father.

Here's a summary I wrote about the sermon we discussed last night along with a pointer to the sermon itself. (I'm not sure if you'll have time for the whole sermon and I want you to at least get a better summary than I was able to give you last night. Also, others may find it encouraging as well...)

Here's a short snippet from another Piper sermon (one that I didn't mention last night, but which I've also found very encouraging) courtesy of Chris Gatihi...

Finally, here's my prayer for you today:

Heavenly Father - though my heart aches for Connor, Eric, Cherie, and Joelle, I am compelled to praise You for the work that I see you doing in the midst of the crucible of this experience which the Williamsons find themselves in. I praise You for Eric's stalwart brothers, Kent and Brad, who have made been making such an excellent use of the internet as a means of supporting their brother and his family and bringing so many people into the support group that is continuing to form around them. I praise You for providing Eric the life experiences which have prepared him to not only minister to his son, his wife, and his daughter, but also to a young man who so clearly needs a strong shoulder and right arm to lean upon heavily in his own crisis [Nick - we'll be praying for you, your brother, and your mother!] I praise You for providing a nurse and doctor on Connor's medical team who are believers. I thank You for the opportunity to witness some of their support for the Williamsons first hand -- I'm sure it cannot be measured. Finally, I praise you for how clearly your love is being demonstrated through the lives and witness of the Williamsons even as you are refining them as precious metal - so that not only You can see Your reflection, but so that the whole world can also see.

 
At June 23, 2008 12:03 PM , Anonymous Diane said...

Dearest Connor,Cherie, Eric, Joelle,
There are no words that are forthcoming at this moment.I believe I am in shock. I have beeen receiving calls concerning my Conner, and little did I know that it is your Connor who they were calling about.We had many moments in our meetings where we talked of our boys, I feel as though I know your Connor from all of the love in your voices as you spoke of him and I am saddened to hear of his accident. I am finding strength in your words. Funny, it should be the other way...I send my positive thoughts and prayers to each of you. Please Cherie let others do for you what you so often do for them. I am here for all of you in any capacity. At this moment in prayers and good thoughts.
Love and hugs, Diane, Jim, Conner, Brendan, Colin Williamson (Morgan Hill)

 

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